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What it’s like to work with a matchmaker

Many people have an idea in their minds of what a matchmaker does, in this article, I explain exactly how I help my clients to find a committed partner.

Matchmaking – is it old-fashioned?

Not at all! Today, matchmaking is resurgence, even among younger singles. We can actually thank the increase in dating computer apps for this. What was once seen as the new and easy way to meet a partner has proliferated into fleeting hook-ups, two (plus) timing, fake identities, catfishing, and the list goes on of the negative outcomes from relying on an impersonal mathematical algorithm and free to join apps!

The origins of matchmaking in many cultures go back thousands of years.

“The concept of matchmaking is considered to be as old as the formation of families and communities, as people naturally wanted to help others find suitable partners.”

Even today, so many cultures continue the tradition of making a match where family values and personalities are aligned, all with the aim of giving the new couple the best chance of a successful, happy and long marriage.

Something that has continued in human culture for thousands of years must be right!

At Vital Partners, we apply the same foundation concept to our service. Although there is a difference, we are an unbiased guide to our clients. We don’t assume we know you; instead, we get to know you, your past and present, and your desired future.

Getting to know you.

Are you looking for a more personal introduction service? One where you’re not just a number on the computer. Your personal desires are fully understood by your Vital Consultant, a real person who then skillfully matches you with your ideal partner… in a way that computers simply can’t.

At Vital Partners, we don’t just throw any potential partner your way. We hand-pick your ideal partner from hundreds of pre-screened men and women who are genuinely single and, like you, are looking for stable and long-term loving relationships.

We work with many high-profile clients, professional executives and everyday people who are simply genuine singles ready to share their lives with someone special. The personal and financial investment our clients make means that they are truly invested and ready.

But, the first step in helping you find your compatible partner is to have a quick chat to discuss your dreams and desires and to build a profile of your ideal partner.

There’s absolutely no obligation, and in the rare case that we don’t have someone compatible to introduce you to, we’ll let you know immediately.

(Having said that, we’ve found over the last 37 years that our methods have an 83%+ success rate, so you’re in great hands!)

What does a matchmaker bring that no one else can? 

Your privacy and security are of utmost importance to us. We provide a completely secure environment where you can meet like-minded singles without worrying about your personal information being compromised or scammed. We not only get to know our clients’ personalities but also thoroughly screen and vet all potential matches to ensure they are genuine and unattached.

Our matchmakers work closely with you to understand your preferences, values, and relationship goals. This personalised, human approach ensures that we offer to introduce you to individuals who are genuinely compatible with you. We match you with someone that we strongly believe aligns with your values and background, increasing the likelihood of a successful match and a better chance of developing into a fulfilling long-term relationship.

You can communicate with us face to face or on the phone, with an easy line of communication between us and you. We offer support, advice and are always ready to listen to your needs or concerns throughout your time with our matchmaking service.

“Everyone deserves to find true love. At Vital Partners, we’re here to make that happen.”

– Recel Tayor

What’s the Vital Partners process?

Once you’ve had your initial consultation with us at Vital Partners (either in person at our Sydney or Canberra office or via video call), we will create your personal bio. We will immediately let you know if we have a particular match in mind whilst we get you to provide some further information to us on your wants, needs, and goals for a partner. At Vital, we’re also relationship coaches, so at this time, we will also give you some feedback, potentially related to understanding what may have gone wrong with some of your past partners and how to approach introductions and dates going forward if you like.

Once you’re happy that we’ve heard you and what you need, with permission, we provide comprehensive information to your prospective partners, such as photos, physical descriptions, and details about your interests and values. Your Consultant will then speak to you to describe the character and personality of your potential partner so you can decide whether to meet. If you feel comfortable with the introduction, we’ll provide you with their phone number – both parties always have total control over who they choose to date.

And if that magic chemistry isn’t there, we just continue to refine and introduce until you find your wonderful someone.

Where To Next?

The people who come and see us are those who have made a conscious decision to work on their love life. They want to share their life with the right person – someone they can grow with and have fun with together, and they can create wonderful adventures and experiences together. For the most part, they want someone who they can build a deep and meaningful relationship in a monogamous partnership. If this is where you are, it would be terrific to add your name to our happily matched file soon.

Visit https://vitalpartners.com.au/contact-us/ for a chat.

Vital Partners is a matchmaking service in Sydney and Canberra. We help mature singles with their dating journey. Professionals, executive dating and those looking for a quality experience with exceptional personal customer service. We’re here to guide you through every stage of your romantic journey. Let us be the introduction agency to help you find that special person who will enrich your life.

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